softkills bahasa inggris tulisan 4 : sorry

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Sorry

Sorry my opinion is an act of a person to forgive and overlook others' mistakes against him. Rarely do people who like the look, many of us easy to get angry, offended by a trivial thing. Maybe they think if forgiveness will make it contemptible and low self-esteem they could even go down, but it is not at all forgiving nature will inherit honor, because elevating someone forgiving.

Forgiveness will help us move in life, than to be caught up in hatred and malice. It's hard to forgive let alone forget the mistakes that others have done to us, but let us think again, if we have the intention to repay not be the same between us with him who made a mistake and when it will end the bad attitude?

Bertrand Russell said, "life is shorter than we record for errors of others against us, or we are fostering hostility than among men."

And the wise man say, "forgiveness is better enjoyment of the pleasure of scolding others, the first will be accompanied with a commendable result, while the latter will be accompanied by regret."

“puko21”

softkills bahasa inggris tulisan 4 : aspiration

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Aspiration

Everyone has ideals, I also have that be a psychologist who can help with people who are confused and even frustrated. Although I am currently studying at university majoring in management Gunadarma I was not discouraged to bury my goal. I realized until now I still bother my parents and my brothers. I am grateful to be able to continue their education into college with majors although I do not want. And I'm not going to waste my belief that parents gave me, I'm still trying to get good grades in this course may not be the maximum but I'll try to continue. I do not bury my dreams could I just put it off for a while, I know for a degree education psychologist is very long maybe about 6 or 8 years old, and I graduated S1 around age 21 if I insisted on studying psychology I may be old 27 or 29 years old, according to my age is old for women not working, happy family and marriage. Because it is possible to replace the joy my aspiration as a hobby to read books on psychology. Because what I want to be a psychologist wants to help others so I will continue to do to help others who are in distress although not with the title of psychologist. I just wanted to help others to know the mental, mind. then from the moment I love to read psychology books in the library. According to my very exciting if we know what other people think other than that we also know which ones are genuine or not to ourselves.

“puko21”

softkills bahasa inggris tulisan 4 : negative vs positive thinking in self and life

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Negative vs. positive thinking in self and life

If you've talked about the positive and negative like to talk about the good and the bad, yes indeed the existence of such positive thoughts and the things we do will always be a positive value or a value-added goodness we have done so while also negative if we think of something negative and negative work also it will result in something bad or considered bad for anyone who did

Now positive thoughts, positive thoughts is when we feel uneasy feeling that there will be a greater pleasure than in ourselves. We choose to be happy and do not choose to be the one to suffer. While the negative thoughts will hinder our steps towards the path of success and becoming unfocused. The mind is a positive or negative thoughts option. We are entitled to opt for that choice determines our way of life later. Because positive thoughts will lead us to run the positive things and eventually become successful in the future, while the opposite negative thoughts will lead us to the things that bring us to the negative and misery. Now it's up to you determine to stay positive mindset in you or the negative mindset that will make you always be worse. Remember the positive or the negative mind is your choice. Thank you ..

“puko21”

softkills bahasa inggris tulisan 4 : the concept of self

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The concept of self-

Actually I think the concept of self is a plan, decisions, goals you have in themselves to lead to the success of the person. According to the book "born to be a genius" by adi w.gunawan, self-concept consists of 3 main components that influence each other are ideal self, self-image and self-esteem. Ideal self is not about a person's height to be ideal with her weight yes, but the ideal of self largely determine the direction of your life. Determine the direction of development of self and character growth and personality. Consciously or not we are going to imitate someone we admire, who we think is a great person, integrity, honest and brave. We always try to direct what we do the same with the ideal self is to note here is that we must be careful in choosing or unconsciously shape will make you tend to directly assign someone to be your ideal self. Therefore we must have a basic understanding of good or positive in ourselves. Now the self-image is one way we look at ourselves and think about ourselves. Self-image is often referred to as "mirror self". We will always look into the mirror of how we should act. Call it like introspecting themselves. The most rapid changes will occur if we rebrand ourselves. Seeing in a different way and of course we will act in a different way. Furthermore, self-esteem, self-esteem is an emotional component and the most important in determining our attitude and personality. define the spirit of pride, enthusiasm, and self-motivation. Our self-esteem is determined by the relationship between the ideal self with our self-image. boils down to this the more we love and appreciate ourselves, the better the grind.

“puko21”

softkills bahasa inggris tulisan 4 : melancholy personality type

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Melancholy personality type

when I was in high school I had attended the personality test and I get into this melancholy personality type, it does not directly tell me a little bit of myself into this by a lot of books about personalities. The melancholic person is a serious person and a closed, but very intelligent and critical thinking. Melancholy man can do a thing with much more diligently than other personality, understanding something step by step.

Personal strengths melancholy

Melancholic person is usually very talented and very intelligent. They often grow by developing existing ideas and membuatnnya be better, they have the instinct and talent as an inventor. People loyal to view melancholic tradition. Because they are consistent, they love in an environment they are familiar with. Melancholic person has a perfectionist nature, want to see everything they do is perfect and has no flaws.

Personal weakness melancholy

Melancholic people have less flexibility in building a warm interpersonal relationships. They usually are often true, but they will tell you that they are right. They also often moody (fickle temperament) to the environment they are more likely to show the reaction of the response and so if they do not like they may be seen of his face and his behavior. Melancholy is also very vindictive person. If they want to get back at their enemies will patiently wait for the right time to respond with retaliation in kind.

Maybe that's what I remember from the many books I read about the melancholy personality. Thank you

“puko21”